More confusing messages in “Is It My Fault” by the Holcombs (book review Pt 4 of 4)

This final part of the book review exposes the confusing double messages in Justin and Lindsey Holcomb's book Is It My Fault?Hope and Healing for Those Suffering Domestic Abuse. Previous parts of this book review: Part 1   Part 2   Part 3 The Holcombs lament how the church falls short, but they seem to assume that churches will respond properly… Continue reading More confusing messages in “Is It My Fault” by the Holcombs (book review Pt 4 of 4)

The relational cancer of abuse is not like the common cold

By an anon reader — I wrote to you many months ago, shortly after leaving my N.A. (narcissistic abuser) husband. I was deeply troubled by the responses of several of my good, Christian friends who told me that they believed I was being abused but that I was not perfect, either, and I did act like a… Continue reading The relational cancer of abuse is not like the common cold