Update from Barb Roberts, July, 2025. I no longer agree with the views expressed by the Guest poster below. The reason I'm not deleting her blog post is that if I deleted the post, the comments would also be scrubbed. I don't believe in de-voicing any victim of abuse. Patrick Carnes is DANGEROUS. I'll soon… Continue reading Chains that bind us to betrayal and the key to being set free
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Choose your own misadventure
This story is a composite of many many accounts we've heard from victims. Take a deep breath, and select the options that best describe your case from each set of bullet points below. At first my church was okay with me disclosing the abuse to a pastor/ elder/ women's ministry leader separating for abuse divorcing… Continue reading Choose your own misadventure
