Gaslighting

We have chatted about gaslighting here and there but realized, recently, that we do not have a formal post on the topic. So! Here is an informational post that will also, hopefully, enlighten many of our readers to this heinous tactic of  abusers. Armed with knowledge, we know better how to fight the lies. Gaslighting… Continue reading Gaslighting

How pre-marital counselling kept this woman entrenched in an abusive marriage — by Kathy

One of our readers, Kathy, wrote this in a reply to a question Jeff C asked her in a thread. We thought it was so helpful we have obtained Kathy's permission to make it into a post. I  have put the hurtful and damaging messages from the 'c'hurch into bold font. This story also illustrates… Continue reading How pre-marital counselling kept this woman entrenched in an abusive marriage — by Kathy