There was a moment during my marriage (perhaps you could say it was the emotional end of my marriage), when "the wall" went up. It was the moment when I said "I realize that I do not know you, you are not safe for me, and I will not allow you to hurt me any… Continue reading The Wall
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The Fallacy of Making Our Healing Dependent On Those Who Hurt Us
I learned a tough lesson as I went through my divorce: "Don't make your healing dependent on the one who hurt you". Even after I "learned" this truth, unwittingly I fell into the trap over and over again. We can all easily fall prey to this mindset, but as long as we are there we… Continue reading The Fallacy of Making Our Healing Dependent On Those Who Hurt Us