When the Abuser is a Pastor

(Jeremiah 23:1-4  ESV)  "Woe to the shepherds who destroy and scatter the sheep of my pasture!" declares the LORD. Therefore thus says the LORD, the God of Israel, concerning the shepherds who care for my people: "You have scattered my flock and have driven them away, and you have not attended to them. Behold, I… Continue reading When the Abuser is a Pastor

Marks of a pretend victim versus a true victim

Abusers usually portray themselves as victims, as most of our readers are well aware. Are there any distinguishing marks of a pretend victim as opposed to a true victim of domestic abuse? I began thinking about this because of a comment that one of our readers, Nyssa, made in another post. Here's what she said:… Continue reading Marks of a pretend victim versus a true victim