I loved the way he lied. But not anymore.

Lyrics of the song Love the Way You Lie [Internet Archive link]  (Trigger warning. Language warning.) That song. I remember loving and hating it when it came out. We were living far from family, far from my support system and I felt trapped. But I learned how strong I really could be in that situation. I… Continue reading I loved the way he lied. But not anymore.

The Difficulty and Necessity of Accepting the Unlove

Recently, Jeff Crippen made a comment on this post: It seems to me that the physical relationship between husband and wife is an outgrowth of the nature of their heart relationship. If the heart is bad, all that proceeds from it will be colored by that. So the fact that your husband is manipulative, mean,… Continue reading The Difficulty and Necessity of Accepting the Unlove