I loved the way he lied. But not anymore.

Lyrics of the song Love the Way You Lie [Internet Archive link]  (Trigger warning. Language warning.) That song. I remember loving and hating it when it came out. We were living far from family, far from my support system and I felt trapped. But I learned how strong I really could be in that situation. I… Continue reading I loved the way he lied. But not anymore.

Judge not — are we forbidden to judge?

Should we judge others? Many Christians think we shouldn't. Sermons and Sunday Schools have emphasised Matthew 7:1 — "judge not, that ye be not judged" — so strongly that many Christians seem to believe the sum total of the Bible's teaching on interpersonal judgement is "judge not, that ye be not judged". But Scripture has… Continue reading Judge not — are we forbidden to judge?