Refusal to forgive is not resistance to healing; it is resistance to erasure. — Vera Hart The Violence of Forced Forgiveness. I'd like to unpack this a bit. Or rephrase it. I honour my innermost being when I refusal to comply with social pressure to forgive. It is true is that my enemy sinned against… Continue reading Resisting social pressure to perform forgiveness. The fine line.
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Churches must evaluate the entrapment barriers they create and perpetuate that keep victims entrapped in abuse — Andrea Aleksandrova
Victims usually stay with abusers because they face entrapment barriers that prevent them from leaving. "Churches must evaluate the entrapment barriers they create and perpetuate that keep victims entrapped in abuse," says Andrea Aleksandrova in her superb article Becoming A Safe Church: How churches can become safe spaces for victims of domestic abuse. I am… Continue reading Churches must evaluate the entrapment barriers they create and perpetuate that keep victims entrapped in abuse — Andrea Aleksandrova