Some domestic abusers are addicted to porn as well as being abusive to their wives in a pattern of coercive control. This is an account from a happily married woman who supported a victim as she divorced her abuser. She discovered that this abuser, among his other sins, was addicted to gay porn. The story came to me by… Continue reading The Lord shielded not my eyes but my soul from the filth on the screen
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How can you get your pastor to help?
Here's the pattern I've lived and seen in others. We KNOW our husbands are doing some awful things. But we don't want people to hate him or judge him. We want him to be loved and get pastoral care. We hope that a little talking to will wake him up and he will straighten… Continue reading How can you get your pastor to help?