The “B” Word (bitterness) — part of the language of abusers

This post is written by Megan with some help from Barbara. The words "I" and "me" refer to Megan. *** For quite a while, I have noticed that victims of abuse are regularly accused of being "bitter". In fact, it seems to be a catch-all method for striking out the validity of a victim, as… Continue reading The “B” Word (bitterness) — part of the language of abusers

Knowing Your Own Weaknesses

For those of us who have never had a loving relationship (aside from our children or friends), it can be extremely hard to discern where our own problems lie. I am struggling with this because I have heard so often that everyone has sin areas of their life, and that it will create problems in… Continue reading Knowing Your Own Weaknesses