I left him because I loved him

I was married for over 20 years. X was physically abusive off and on the whole time. He could go years without a physical incident. But the threats, insults, beratings were more common. It wasn't constant. And that was the confusing part. We might have had a couple of months of peace and laughter. And… Continue reading I left him because I loved him

The Incredible Truth About The Drama Triangle

How many times would I end up walking out of that room, dizzy with confusion at what just happened, or didn’t happen, feeling like I am always the problem, always the one who needs to work harder and do better? I had gone in, like so many other times, wanting to address a small issue… Continue reading The Incredible Truth About The Drama Triangle