The neglect of intimate partner abuse in the advocacy community (Butler series)

Why would I keep writing about Josh Butler and Beautiful Union when most people who were talking about it have moved on? I will keep writing on Butler because I believe that Butler's thesis greatly enables men who abuse their long-term female intimate partners, and this fact has not been sufficiently attended to yet by… Continue reading The neglect of intimate partner abuse in the advocacy community (Butler series)

Beyond Boundaries — by Andrea Aleksandrova

Victims need strategy, not boundaries. Andrea Aleksandrova does a great job of explaining coercive control; how victims strategically resist coercive control; and why it's not helpful to define domestic abuse by a list of behaviours.