Wisdom in Dealing With an Abuser — Realize Everything he Says or Does is Evil

Frequently abuse victims will send me correspondence from their abuser and ask what I think of what the abuser said. My answer is always the same because the words are always the same. "This is evil. Every word, every phrase, every nuance is loaded with accusation, minimization, deception, threat, self-pity, and more." And this is… Continue reading Wisdom in Dealing With an Abuser — Realize Everything he Says or Does is Evil

A Remarkably Insightful and Accurate Description of the Deceptive Evil of Abusers

The following incredibly descriptive comment (here) was submitted to the blog by TB in response to the article "The Patriarchal Father as Idol God."  We are making it a stand alone blog post to highlight it to our readers. Many, many thanks to TB for sharing and blessings on her. I had followed a religion… Continue reading A Remarkably Insightful and Accurate Description of the Deceptive Evil of Abusers