Tag: Allan Wade

More confusing messages in “Is It My Fault” by the Holcombs (book review Pt 4 of 4)

Barbara Roberts13 Comments

This final part of the book review exposes the confusing double messages in Justin and Lindsey Holcomb's book Is It My Fault?Hope and Healing for Those Suffering Domestic Abuse. Previous parts of this book review: Part 1   Part 2   Part 3 The Holcombs lament how the church falls short, but they seem to assume that churches will respond properly… Continue reading More confusing messages in “Is It My Fault” by the Holcombs (book review Pt 4 of 4)

Do victims have a problem with setting boundaries?

Barbara Roberts15 Comments

Do victims have a problem with setting boundaries? This is a close cousin to the question "Do victims attract abusers?"  which I looked at recently in my post Is there something in a victim that an abuser latches on to? One of our readers, Pamplamoussejuice, made a comment to which I wrote a couple of… Continue reading Do victims have a problem with setting boundaries?