A friend writes: In my first marriage, I had a very difficult time getting others to see the reasons behind why my husband would treat me so poorly. He was terribly neglectful, although I could not have known to use that word, yet. He worked long hours and went to seminary (of course, I did… Continue reading Rationalization as it Relates to an Abuser in Ministry
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Eggshells and a Peace that Cannot Be – by Anonymous
Here are some hard-learned lessons from one of our readers, the survivor of many years of abuse. Thank you, Anon for helping us all learn: You cannot make peace, where there is no peace. Sometimes, victims of abuse, spend inordinate amounts of time, trying to get “peace”; bring “peace” keep “peace” in a marriage and… Continue reading Eggshells and a Peace that Cannot Be – by Anonymous
