Tag: abuser’s allies

The abuser accuses his allies when they abandon him: case study—Saeed Abedini’s FB rants

Barbara Roberts27 Comments

Saeed Abedini's recent Facebook rants are typical of the language abusers use when their other tactics of abuse are ceasing to be effective and they believe they have no other way of regaining the upper hand. Have a look at these examples of Saeed Abedini’s Strange Online Behavior which Julie Anne Smith has gathered together and commented on at… Continue reading The abuser accuses his allies when they abandon him: case study—Saeed Abedini’s FB rants

A Common Tactic of Abusers is to Try to Alienate the Victim’s Allies

Jeff Crippen50 Comments

I understand that you are giving _______ counsel and I want to talk to you. I have received that kind of message many times over the past few years. A message on our church answering machine. An email. A note. I never answer these messages because I know what they are about. They are attempts… Continue reading A Common Tactic of Abusers is to Try to Alienate the Victim’s Allies