Another abuser-enabling, victim-enslaving book: Jim Newheiser’s  “Marriage, Divorce and Remarriage”

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Wisdom in Dealing With an Abuser — Realize Everything he Says or Does is Evil

Frequently abuse victims will send me correspondence from their abuser and ask what I think of what the abuser said. My answer is always the same because the words are always the same. "This is evil. Every word, every phrase, every nuance is loaded with accusation, minimization, deception, threat, self-pity, and more." And this is… Continue reading Wisdom in Dealing With an Abuser — Realize Everything he Says or Does is Evil