Don’t Waste Your Time Counseling Esau — He Isn’t Going to Change

Therefore let us leave the elementary doctrine of Christ and go on to maturity, not laying again a foundation of repentance from dead works and of faith toward God, and of instruction about washings, the laying on of hands, the resurrection of the dead, and eternal judgment. And this we will do if God permits.… Continue reading Don’t Waste Your Time Counseling Esau — He Isn’t Going to Change

Thursday Thought — Two Underlying Assumptions of Couples Therapy

Couples therapy is based on two underlying assumptions.  The first is that there is equality between the partners.  The second is that each partner contributes to creating the problems in the relationship.  These assumptions simply are not true in an abusive relationship.  His abuse is not related to her actions.  It doesn't matter what she… Continue reading Thursday Thought — Two Underlying Assumptions of Couples Therapy