Awakening the Evangelical Church to Domestic Abuse
the abuser’s mentality, tactics of abusers, language of abusers, red flags, evil, deception, demonic influence
Recently we have been watching the reality series "Life Below Zero." One of the couples featured in the episodes is a clear example of an abuser and victim — Andy (abuser) and Kate (victim). If you want to see an abuser in action, just tune in and watch. Kate was in denial in earlier episodes… Continue reading A Typical Line by an Abuser — “I Just Don’t Know Why She Left Me”
Frequently abuse victims will send me correspondence from their abuser and ask what I think of what the abuser said. My answer is always the same because the words are always the same. "This is evil. Every word, every phrase, every nuance is loaded with accusation, minimization, deception, threat, self-pity, and more." And this is… Continue reading Wisdom in Dealing With an Abuser — Realize Everything he Says or Does is Evil
