Honouring Resistance: How Women Resist Abuse in Intimate Relationships is an excellent booklet that explains that every person resists abuse and that abusers choose their behaviour. Choosing to Change is a companion document to "Honouring Resistance." It is a handbook for men concerned about maintaining their relationships that might be threatened by abusive behaviour towards those… Continue reading Honouring Resistance – a wonderful resource for understanding abuse
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Do victims have a problem with setting boundaries?
Do victims have a problem with setting boundaries? This is a close cousin to the question "Do victims attract abusers?" which I looked at recently in my post Is there something in a victim that an abuser latches on to? One of our readers, Pamplamoussejuice, made a comment to which I wrote a couple of… Continue reading Do victims have a problem with setting boundaries?