Do victims have a problem with setting boundaries?

Do victims have a problem with setting boundaries? This is a close cousin to the question "Do victims attract abusers?"  which I looked at recently in my post Is there something in a victim that an abuser latches on to? One of our readers, Pamplamoussejuice, made a comment to which I wrote a couple of… Continue reading Do victims have a problem with setting boundaries?

Do not be overcome by evil (Romans 12:21)

This is a verse for victims of abuse to ponder on. If you're like me, I bet you never thought about this verse as applying to you while you were (or still are) living with your abuser. I'm guessing the second injunction in that verse captured your attention — overcome evil with good — and… Continue reading Do not be overcome by evil (Romans 12:21)