A reader says: I am a post-divorce survivor of domestic violence. My family have grown and changed a lot along with me through this process....from being unwitting allies of my X, to now maintaining no contact and helping me escape from my abuser. My kids have to have regular visitation with their Dad by court… Continue reading When kids have to spend time with an abusive parent, how can they apply ‘heap burning coals upon his head’?
Tag: victims’ resistance
The Gray Rock Method (or, the Grey Rock Method)*
"Gray Rock" is a strategy that can be helpful when interacting with someone who has chronically abused or mistreated you.