Thursday Thought — A Sign of False Repentance

'Niceness' to the victim is almost always a sign of false repentance.  It is a bribe offered to dupe and buy off the victim's insistence upon fruits of real repentance. It is a facade.  It is a kind of inappropriate 'payment' made, but it is not graciously given.  It expects and demands something in return… Continue reading Thursday Thought — A Sign of False Repentance

How can I know if my abuser is changing?

Do you think that your abuser might be changed or changing? Is he love bombing you? Is he making you wonder whether he finally really sees that you love him, that you have value, and should be treated with respect? Do you keep the phone with you hoping for the repentant email or text that will show… Continue reading How can I know if my abuser is changing?