Thursday Thought — A Sign of False Repentance
‘Niceness’ to the victim is almost always a sign of false repentance. It is a bribe offered to dupe and buy off the victim’s insistence upon fruits of real repentance. It is a facade. It is a kind of inappropriate ‘payment’ made, but it is not graciously given. It expects and demands something in return — usually, forgiveness or denial or dropping demands for real consequences. ‘Niceness’ really means nothing. What is required is REAL fruit, REAL repentance that is appropriate and fitting to the nature of the abuse suffered.
[Ps Crippen, Sermon — The Deception of the Abuser, August 22, 2010]