Dr. George Simon, Jr. graciously accepted our invitation to write some guest posts for ACFJ, and here is his first! Most of our readers will recognize him as the author of some of our favorite books: In Sheep's Clothing [Affiliate link] Character Disturbance [Affiliate link] And now the latest: The Judas Syndrome: Why Good People… Continue reading How to Recognize True (and false) Contrition — by Dr. George Simon, Jr.
Tag: red flags
for posts discussing visible signs of an abuser as one gets to know a person
The language of abusers who portray themselves as victims — Vagueness & Contradictions
When I'm listening to a person who is complaining about their spouse or their marriage, I want to discern whether they are a victim or a perpetrator. Does this mean I am suspicious of all disclosures of abuse? Yes; and no. In most cases, the person's words (and body language, if I'm able to see… Continue reading The language of abusers who portray themselves as victims — Vagueness & Contradictions