The Difficulty and Necessity of Accepting the Unlove

Recently, Jeff Crippen made a comment on this post: It seems to me that the physical relationship between husband and wife is an outgrowth of the nature of their heart relationship. If the heart is bad, all that proceeds from it will be colored by that. So the fact that your husband is manipulative, mean,… Continue reading The Difficulty and Necessity of Accepting the Unlove

They Do It in Secret

Abusers almost always abuse in secret, unless they have gotten sloppy . . . and then they leak.  But that is a different blog post. For the most part, abusers jab and mock (emotionally, physically and verbally) when no one but the victim can feel it, see it or hear it. This is part of… Continue reading They Do It in Secret