Understanding abuse: one pastor’s journey

A true autobiographical story. Names (including the author’s), places and dates are fictional. My name is Michael Lehman. I’ve served in pastoral ministry since my ordination in 1986. I’d describe my theological convictions as reformed evangelical. For the past few years I’ve been on an extended sabbatical, devoted to further study and writing. During this… Continue reading Understanding abuse: one pastor’s journey

How much should I stand up to my abuser?

Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator. The link to Lundy's post has therefore been removed. [End of March, 2025 update.] Informational post: "How much should I stand up to him?" is Lundy Bancroft's latest post on his blog. It's very good. [March 8, 2025: Editors’ notes: —For some comments… Continue reading How much should I stand up to my abuser?