One of the most frequent tactics used by the worst abuser I have ever had to deal with was that of playing the victim. And it was more than that. He would put on a facial expression that had successfully "worked" for him all his life, gaining him people's sympathy. At other times he would… Continue reading What Does the Devil Look Like? Getting Wise to the Abuser’s Victim-Playing Schemes
Tag: identifying abusers
broad term that relates to identifying an abuser once in a long term relationship
The Abuser’s Goal – A Master/Slave Relationship
But just as at that time he who was born according to the flesh persecuted him who was born according to the Spirit, so also it is now. But what does the Scripture say? "Cast out the slave woman and her son, for the son of the slave woman shall not inherit with the son… Continue reading The Abuser’s Goal – A Master/Slave Relationship