The term “trauma bonding” is invalid and victim-blaming. It was coined by misogynist Patrick Carnes.

The term "Trauma Bonding" is just as victim-blaming as when women were diagnosed with "Hysteria" or "wandering womb" or "Stockholm syndrome". Many people use the term "Trauma Bonding" (just like many people used to believe Hysteria and wandering womb were real). But it's not based in actual truth or things that are factual. It's entirely… Continue reading The term “trauma bonding” is invalid and victim-blaming. It was coined by misogynist Patrick Carnes.

Testimony from a woman who was exploited by Lundy Bancroft

What I want to say about Lundy Bancroft is that I experienced him as very calculated, and sinister. He's articulate, intelligent, and superficially charming. He can be empathic and supportive if he wants to be, but it's lacking genuine depth. Looking back, I fell right into his trap. I believed him when he said the Peak… Continue reading Testimony from a woman who was exploited by Lundy Bancroft