Non-Negotiables for Effective and Biblical Abuse Ministry

Many people are offering help to the abused. In making sense of the things we have suffered, we don't want to waste our energy following people-helpers who may lead us astray. In trying to find safety, vindication, healing and justice, we don't want to waste our time and energy following people-helpers who are actually harming… Continue reading Non-Negotiables for Effective and Biblical Abuse Ministry

The term “trauma bonding” is invalid and victim-blaming. It was coined by misogynist Patrick Carnes.

The term "Trauma Bonding" is just as victim-blaming as when women were diagnosed with "Hysteria" or "wandering womb" or "Stockholm syndrome". Many people use the term "Trauma Bonding" (just like many people used to believe Hysteria and wandering womb were real). But it's not based in actual truth or things that are factual. It's entirely… Continue reading The term “trauma bonding” is invalid and victim-blaming. It was coined by misogynist Patrick Carnes.