How often is that one is thrown at targets of abuse? Once a target has mustered the courage to share the truth of what's happening, people are reluctant to believe that the problems are serious. There are many reasons for this. But in an effort to minimize the danger, the target's advisers often tell her… Continue reading ‘Hurting People Hurt People’
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Keep Your Accusation Radar Up — It Detects Abusers
I have written on this subject before, just last September — but it comes around in my mind once more as 2015 begins. Here is a fact that will serve you well in helping identify and defend against an abuser: Abusers are accusers. A normal, healthy, safe relationship is not characterized by accusations. If someone is… Continue reading Keep Your Accusation Radar Up — It Detects Abusers