There was an unhealthy dynamic in our marriage. But generosity, forbearance and patience are not sins, while unkindness, unjust accusations, lies and selfishness are. This guest post is by our reader 'Gaining Momentum'. Many thanks to her for writing it. This feels like it’s been a long time coming – writing down what I want… Continue reading For the Kingdom! – A survivor of domestic abuse tells her story
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The Explaining Trap
When having a conversation with an abuser, the abuser often tries to get you to fall into the explaining trap. It is a trap because no matter how much you explain things to the abuser, the abuser will pretend to not understand or not accept your explanations. And he will keep challenging and criticizing your… Continue reading The Explaining Trap
