An open letter to a well-meaning but ill-advised Christian friend on the subject of my separation

I realize your message was sent in love and with the best of intentions. I'm so sorry you have suffered as well. But you need to understand a few things. Yes, I am changed. I am deeply traumatized. But only through this separation and fighting for myself (and not tip-toeing around a sinful man) have… Continue reading An open letter to a well-meaning but ill-advised Christian friend on the subject of my separation

Thursday Thought — His Attachment to Payback

Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator.. Any red lettering in the post below is part of this update. [End of March, 2025 update.] Women who are in unhealthy relationships struggle with the question "Is my partner's behavior normal?" You may wonder whether the problem is that you're just… Continue reading Thursday Thought — His Attachment to Payback