They Do It in Secret

Abusers almost always abuse in secret, unless they have gotten sloppy . . . and then they leak.  But that is a different blog post. For the most part, abusers jab and mock (emotionally, physically and verbally) when no one but the victim can feel it, see it or hear it. This is part of… Continue reading They Do It in Secret

“I am abused.” Those words are so hard to say

Note: this post ("I am abused". Those words are so hard to say. [Internet Archive link]) was first published at my [old] notunderbondage blog before I'd made contact with Jeff Crippen and joined ACFJ. [Click here for the home page of the new Not Under Bondage website. Editors.] *** Every survivor of abuse will identify… Continue reading “I am abused.” Those words are so hard to say