Neutrality is not neutral

With domestic abuse, it’s not okay for pastors to take a neutral stance vis a vis perpetrator and victim. The church ought to fully support victims while holding perpetrators accountable. Pastors: if you take the neutral stance, you effectively become an ally of the abuser. It means you are taking the view that both parties are… Continue reading Neutrality is not neutral

The Abuser’s Background of Being Abused is no Excuse — Don’t Accept it as Such

He will render to each one according to his works:  (Romans 2:6  ESV) It is quite common for abusers to claim that they were abused when they were children and, when cornered, offer this as an excuse for their abuse of others. We must not permit them to do so. Let me explain why. Firstly,… Continue reading The Abuser’s Background of Being Abused is no Excuse — Don’t Accept it as Such