ACFJ is regularly contacted by the wives of abusers who are pastors or missionaries. The thing is incredible, but true. Here stands a man in the pulpit or in some pastoral ministry in a church, admired by the flock, thought to be the "holiest of the holy", a "model husband and father". That is the… Continue reading Firsthand Witness to the Thinking of an Abusive Youth Pastor
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The Pastor’s Wife — An All too Frequent Ally of the Abuser
I thought that if I went to my pastor's wife and told her what was really going on in my marriage, she would certainly understand and help me. After all, she is a woman too. There are godly women married to pastors. My wife is one. This post is in no way intended to be… Continue reading The Pastor’s Wife — An All too Frequent Ally of the Abuser