Here's the pattern I've lived and seen in others. We KNOW our husbands are doing some awful things. But we don't want people to hate him or judge him. We want him to be loved and get pastoral care. We hope that a little talking to will wake him up and he will straighten… Continue reading How can you get your pastor to help?
Tag: identifying abusers
broad term that relates to identifying an abuser once in a long term relationship
Abusers Expose Themselves: Some Early Warning Signs to Watch for
This post is written mostly from personal experience. It addresses a topic that generally leads me to start talking to myself: "Jeff, how could you have been so stupid? Why didn't you realize what that person was a long, long time ago?" You know that kind of self-talk I bet. But I think that we… Continue reading Abusers Expose Themselves: Some Early Warning Signs to Watch for
