Manipulative patterns of abusers

My ex is a genius. A bonafide real life MENSA-level genius. I was awed by his intellect. However, anything he didn’t want to fool with was mysterious to him. He couldn’t get some electronic device to work and he’d roar about it and order me to make it do what he wanted. The last time… Continue reading Manipulative patterns of abusers

Look Out for Mean Followed by Nice Followed by Mean, Followed by Nice….

Psalm 21:7-8 For the king trusts in the LORD, and through the steadfast love of the Most High he shall not be moved. Your hand will find out all your enemies; your right hand will find out those who hate you. One of the very common tactics of abusers is variously called crazy-making, or Stockholm… Continue reading Look Out for Mean Followed by Nice Followed by Mean, Followed by Nice….