UPDATE added 1st Oct 2017: The revelation of IDC's [Iain D Campbell's] duplicity. According to a number of media sources, it was IDC's wife, Anne, who found the incriminating emails on his computer and confronted him. That is not true. Actually, the husband of one of his women confronted him in early January 2017. Here is… Continue reading The sins of some people are conspicuous. The sins of others appear later—Rev Iain Campbell being an example.
Tag: identifying abusers
broad term that relates to identifying an abuser once in a long term relationship
What Does the Devil Look Like? Getting Wise to the Abuser’s Victim-Playing Schemes
One of the most frequent tactics used by the worst abuser I have ever had to deal with was that of playing the victim. And it was more than that. He would put on a facial expression that had successfully "worked" for him all his life, gaining him people's sympathy. At other times he would… Continue reading What Does the Devil Look Like? Getting Wise to the Abuser’s Victim-Playing Schemes