Don’t be Guilted by the “Gossip Card”

Many thanks to one of our readers for writing the following to us: It's not called gossip once a wife's murder is reported after many years of hidden domestic abuse, but it's called gossip if she talks about it before her murder. It's not called gossip when it is reported that a company / man… Continue reading Don’t be Guilted by the “Gossip Card”

How Abusers Use (Mis-use) Matthew 18 to Escape Church Discipline. Evidence is not just eyewitness testimony.

One thing that abusers in the church are very good at is using Matthew 18 to continue their abuse. Many of them never do anything abusive in front of two or three witnesses. Abusers are rarely stupid enough to leave two or three witnesses. They always know what to say and who to say it to so… Continue reading How Abusers Use (Mis-use) Matthew 18 to Escape Church Discipline. Evidence is not just eyewitness testimony.