Sharing custody with an abuser can be such a nightmare. Too often there is undermining, overt or subtle threats, silence that is always pregnant with fear and the unspoken understanding that nothing is as it seems. Living with this means you and your children have to continually find ways to stay safe; to stay one step ahead… Continue reading Code Word Safety — a way to handle some dilemmas kids have on visitation
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Let’s Put This “But he hasn’t physically abused you” Nonsense to Rest Once and For All
Listen to these far too common words from a pastor to an abused wife who has gone to him for help. The abuse has occurred for decades, habitually, without repentance: From what I have been told, you have suggested that your husband's looking at inappropriate images on the internet is adultery, but he has not… Continue reading Let’s Put This “But he hasn’t physically abused you” Nonsense to Rest Once and For All
