In the quiet of the sleepy morning, I find myself, as I often do, on the bottom of the stairs in my home, cuddling my two kids, who are triggering and on high alert. I often am too, in the mornings. The three of us are afraid a lot at that time of day. My… Continue reading Is Silence Golden In Abuse?
Tag: covert aggression
They Do It in Secret
Abusers almost always abuse in secret, unless they have gotten sloppy . . . and then they leak. But that is a different blog post. For the most part, abusers jab and mock (emotionally, physically and verbally) when no one but the victim can feel it, see it or hear it. This is part of… Continue reading They Do It in Secret
