Cross-hairs. Laser sights. Bulls-eyes. FIRE! Abusers have targets. They select them. They keep them in their sights. Abuse victims can probably identify with the image of living every day, moment by moment, with a laser dot on their forehead, heart, or back. A constant reminder that a shot could be fired any second. For any… Continue reading How Abusers Select a Target – Laser Dot On
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The Sci-Fi Series part 1: You will be assimilated.
"You will be assimilated. Resistance is futile." — the Borg [Internet Archive link]. I feel that X wanted to assimilate me. He wanted to "shape" me, he declared. My desire was to have a family that brings glory to God. My boundaries reflected that desire, that hope. I was resistant to certain songs because I… Continue reading The Sci-Fi Series part 1: You will be assimilated.
