‘Hurting People Hurt People’

How often is that one is thrown at targets of abuse? Once a target has mustered the courage to share the truth of what's happening, people are reluctant to believe that the problems are serious. There are many reasons for this. But in an effort to minimize the danger, the target's advisers often tell her… Continue reading ‘Hurting People Hurt People’

Thursday Thought — Abuse is a Boundary Problem

Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator. Any red lettering in the post below is part of this update. [End of March, 2025 update.] When I use the word "boundary", I am referring to the limits we have around our bodies and our minds to protect our safety, our integrity,… Continue reading Thursday Thought — Abuse is a Boundary Problem