The relational cancer of abuse is not like the common cold

By an anon reader — I wrote to you many months ago, shortly after leaving my N.A. (narcissistic abuser) husband. I was deeply troubled by the responses of several of my good, Christian friends who told me that they believed I was being abused but that I was not perfect, either, and I did act like a… Continue reading The relational cancer of abuse is not like the common cold

Thursday Thought — The Abuser’s Problem with Anger

Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator. Any red lettering in the post below is part of this update. [End of March, 2025 update.] Your abusive partner doesn't have a problem with his anger; he has a problem with your anger. One of the basic human rights he takes away… Continue reading Thursday Thought — The Abuser’s Problem with Anger