“I am abused.” Those words are so hard to say

Note: this post ("I am abused". Those words are so hard to say. [Internet Archive link]) was first published at my [old] notunderbondage blog before I'd made contact with Jeff Crippen and joined ACFJ. [Click here for the home page of the new Not Under Bondage website. Editors.] *** Every survivor of abuse will identify… Continue reading “I am abused.” Those words are so hard to say

Emotional Coma, or Vegetative Depression

It was very difficult for me to admit to anyone that I had experienced an "emotional coma" (that's what I was calling it). It happened twice that I can remember, possibly three times in my first (highly dysfunctional) marriage. My emotions would become overloaded and they would shut down. I went to bed and stayed… Continue reading Emotional Coma, or Vegetative Depression