Gifts from pursuing abusers

There have been at least two times in my own experience when I have told someone who was abusive that they were not to contact me again. Each time they would send birthday presents or some other things to my house in my mail. I never replied to the gift in any way and in… Continue reading Gifts from pursuing abusers

Prejudice

Prejudice is a scourge. My first husband had prejudices. He was white, slim and  fit, and he despised anyone who was fat or unfit. He also despised Asian people and used scurrilous names for them as a group, but at the same time he virtually idolised Asian women for their demure and submissive femininity. My… Continue reading Prejudice