A Typical Ally-Forming Letter from an Abuser

I have talked with a lot of men and women who have been contacted by an abuser (who is trying to form allies). Sadly, some of these people have been my friends and they have only wanted me to know what is going on. Other times, a third party has contacted me to ask about… Continue reading A Typical Ally-Forming Letter from an Abuser

He is such a worthless man that one cannot speak to him.

Does that title sound harsh and judgemental? Many Christians think it's wrong to describe a person — for example, a man who abuses his wife — as such a worthless man that one cannot speak to him. But those words are a quote from the Bible. We have become milksops when we can't call a spade… Continue reading He is such a worthless man that one cannot speak to him.