Allowing God to Affirm Me

It seems that victims (or former victims) of any kind of abuse hunger for validation in their hearts. Actually, not hunger -- starve. Recently, one of our anonymous contributors wrote this post. And I quote: When we are degraded and made to feel worthless and are unloved by the very one who is supposed to… Continue reading Allowing God to Affirm Me

A Typical Ally-Forming Letter from an Abuser

I have talked with a lot of men and women who have been contacted by an abuser (who is trying to form allies). Sadly, some of these people have been my friends and they have only wanted me to know what is going on. Other times, a third party has contacted me to ask about… Continue reading A Typical Ally-Forming Letter from an Abuser