Some people think there is something in the victim that the perpetrator latches on to, otherwise he wouldn't have someone to abuse. Is this true? Another, perhaps more hurtful way of putting this idea is that victims need to work on why they attract that sort of dynamic. Women often feel great shame because they believe… Continue reading Is there something in the victim that the perpetrator latches on to? And do women ‘attract’ abusers?
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The Evil Power of Secrecy – Comments from Anna C. Salter’s Book
I am just beginning to read Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, & Other Sex Offenders [Affiliate link] by Anna C. Salter, a psychologist. I suppose people wonder why anyone would want to read books on such an ugly subject. I do it because I find it freeing. The more informed I become about the mentality and evil tactics… Continue reading The Evil Power of Secrecy – Comments from Anna C. Salter’s Book
