Is there something in the victim that the perpetrator latches on to? And do women ‘attract’ abusers?

Some people think there is something in the victim that the perpetrator latches on to, otherwise he wouldn't have someone to abuse. Is this true? Another, perhaps more hurtful way of putting this idea is that victims need to work on why they attract that sort of dynamic. Women often feel great shame because they believe… Continue reading Is there something in the victim that the perpetrator latches on to? And do women ‘attract’ abusers?

The Deception of Abuse: Scripture Memorization as a Remedy

(Ephesians 6:13-18  ESV)  (13) Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm.  (14) Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness,  (15) and, as shoes for your feet,… Continue reading The Deception of Abuse: Scripture Memorization as a Remedy